Coaching practices for How to Not Overreact to News

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I read one alarming headline and within minutes I’m ready to upend a plan or make some big change right now
• The second someone tells me good news I jump straight to the risks and the “but have you thought about”
• My partner told me something they were excited about and I totally brushed it off, and now I feel bad about it
• I’ve stopped myself from reacting, but I’m still standing right there in it
• When the people I love share good news, I half-listen and give a flat "that’s nice" before moving on

Practices that may help

1. Slow down belief updates triggered by alarming news
   When new information is alarming, wait 48 hours and check a second independent source before acting.
   Availability Cascades: How Fears Spread and Inflate
2. Avoid active-destructive responding
   Resist the urge to immediately point out risks or downsides to good news.
   Active-Constructive Responding, Made Practical
3. Repair a poor response
   When you respond badly to good news, circle back and give the engaged response you missed.
   Active-Constructive Responding, Made Practical
4. T — Take a Step Back: Create Physical and Mental Space
   Step back from the situation — physically if possible, mentally always — to interrupt the reactive loop.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
5. Practice active-constructive responding (relationships pillar)
   Respond to others’ good news with genuine, engaged enthusiasm rather than passive acknowledgment.
   Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical
6. Master your stories
   Separate the facts from the story you’re telling about them before you react.
   Crucial Conversations, Made Practical
7. Respond non-punitively to mistakes
   When someone brings you a problem or mistake, make your first move curiosity, not blame.
   Psychological Safety in Teams
8. Delay a decision until the initial emotional spike passes
   Give yourself 24 hours after a strong emotional reaction before committing to a choice.
   The Affect Heuristic — When Feelings Substitute for Facts
9. Check the facts
   Before acting on an emotion, ask whether your interpretation of the situation actually fits the evidence.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
10. Observe the emotion without feeding it
    When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
    The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical

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