Coaching practices for How to Practice Solitude
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- The second I’m alone I grab my phone or invent a task to escape it
- I figured I get plenty of alone time, but I realized every walk, every commute, every minute before sleep is backfilled with a podcast or music
- There’s never a single minute where it’s just me and my own thoughts
- My days are wall-to-wall noise, inside and out, and I can’t find the quiet to pray the way I want to
- Sitting alone, every single day becomes a negotiation over whether to skip it, and my practice keeps collapsing
Practices that may help
- Solitude as transformative practice, not escape
Enter solitude not to avoid the world but to meet yourself honestly within it.
Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey - Reclaim solitude
Deliberately spend time free from input — including podcasts and audiobooks — to think your own thoughts.
Digital Minimalism, Made Practical - Build structured solitude blocks into your week
Spend time alone with your thoughts — no inputs, no phone, no podcast — to restore the capacity for deep attention.
Attention Reclaiming: Digital Minimalism in Practice - Entering and sitting in silence
Create interior and exterior silence — the necessary soil for contemplative prayer to grow.
Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey - Practicing with a sangha (community sitting)
Sit with others regularly — group practice stabilizes individual practice in ways solitude cannot.
Shikantaza: Just Sitting - Everyday integration — using commute and errand walks as practice
Transform a portion of routine walking into meditation by choosing one formal practice element to maintain for the duration.
Walking Meditation, Made Practical - Bearing the darkness of not-knowing
Tolerate the felt absence of light, experience, or consolation during the practice.
The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts - Practising intentional silence
Build short periods of deliberate quiet into the day — no input, no output — as a return to ground.
Pu: Taoist Simplicity and the Uncarved Block - Retreat to the inner citadel
When the world presses in, withdraw into your own mind — the one place no one can occupy.
Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It - Metta at the close — sharing merit and goodwill
End each sitting by radiating goodwill outward, softening any self-critical edge the practice surfaces.
Vipassana Meditation, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Daily Solitude Practice
Enter solitude not to avoid the world but to meet yourself honestly within it.
Solitude as transformative practice, not escape
- Solitude Blocks Cal Newport
Spend time alone with your thoughts — no inputs, no phone, no podcast — to restore the capacity for deep attention.
Build structured solitude blocks into your week
- When Contemplative Prayer Entering Silence
Create interior and exterior silence — the necessary soil for contemplative prayer to grow.
Entering and sitting in silence
- When Meditations Marcus Aurelius Inner Citadel
When the world presses in, withdraw into your own mind — the one place no one can occupy.
Retreat to the inner citadel
- Interior Silence
Create interior and exterior silence — the necessary soil for contemplative prayer to grow.
- Solitude Vs Loneliness
Enter solitude not to avoid the world but to meet yourself honestly within it.
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