Coaching practices for How to Prepare for a Salary Negotiation

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• A salary conversation is coming and I freeze on the number
• This one really matters and I know that the second they push back I’ll get flustered and lose my thread
• I’ve got a salary talk coming up and I actually know what the role is worth, but my instinct is to hang back politely and let them say a number first
• The second they push back I either cave completely or harden into all-or-nothing, because I walked in without ever deciding what I could actually live with
• I’m going into this with only a fuzzy "somewhere around here" in my head, so the second they say their number it just becomes the whole conversation and I find myself negotiating up from their figure instead of toward mine.

Practices that may help

1. Use the door-in-the-face structure in salary and price negotiations
   In salary negotiation, opening high is partly a door-in-the-face move — your real ask lands against a high anchor.
   The Door-in-the-Face Technique, Made Practical
2. Rehearse the full Ackerman sequence before high-stakes negotiations
   Walk through every bid and response scenario in advance so you execute under pressure with prepared clarity.
   The Ackerman Method, Made Practical
3. Make the first offer (when you’re informed)
   When you know the value range, anchor first — the opening number drags the deal toward it.
   Anchoring Bias in Negotiation and Judgment
4. Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take
   Decide in advance what you are willing to accept short of your full ask, and be ready to offer something in exchange.
   DEAR MAN: DBT’s Skill for Asking for What You Want Effectively
5. Set your target before you open — never anchor to their first offer
   Know your target and your walkaway before any numbers are exchanged, so their anchor doesn’t colonize your frame.
   The Ackerman Method, Made Practical
6. Map the ZOPA before negotiating
   Know your walk-away point and estimate theirs before the first offer is made.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
7. Improve your BATNA before you negotiate
   The best time to strengthen your walk-away position is before the negotiation starts, not during it.
   BATNA: Your Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement
8. Identify your real BATNA before negotiations begin
   Clarify exactly what you will do if no deal is reached — and whether that alternative is as good as you assume.
   BATNA: Your Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement
9. Map the likely ZOPA before the first session
   Estimate both your own and the counterpart’s reservation points before you open, so you know what deal space exists.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
10. Use the Ackerman bid sequence: 65%–85%–95%–100% of target
    Make four calculated offers that converge on your target with shrinking steps — each concession signals you are approaching your limit.
    The Ackerman Method, Made Practical

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