Coaching practices for How to Stop Bullying in the Workplace a Guide for Managers

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  • I’ve told my people a hundred times they can disagree with me, but they still don’t
  • My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
  • People share ideas freely, but nobody ever pushes back on me or questions a decision
  • I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work
  • There’s one person on my team everyone’s decided is just a complainer, and I keep noticing they’re actually pointing at the thing nobody wants to face

Practices that may help

  1. Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up
    Give team members specific language for raising concerns, not just permission to raise them.
    Psychological Safety in Teams
  2. Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
    Managing up means proactively understanding your manager’s priorities, communication style, and constraints — then adapting how you work and communicate to make the partnership effective. Done well it is collaborative rather than manipulative: it reduces friction, builds trust, and creates space for greater autonomy. The evidence base is primarily organizational behavior research on leader-member exchange and practitioner consensus.
  3. Send proactive, brief status updates
    Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
    Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
  4. Develop challenger safety — dissent and challenge are welcomed, not punished
    Create an environment where questioning decisions, challenging leaders, and dissenting are genuinely safe.
    The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
  5. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
    Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
    Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
  6. Give voice to those with uncomfortable perspectives
    Actively surface and protect the dissenting or marginal voices the system wants to silence.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
  7. Understand the constraints your manager operates under
    Ask about the pressures and constraints your manager faces — then factor them into your expectations and requests.
    Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
  8. Create a culture of peer-to-peer accountability
    Teams that only hold each other accountable through the manager haven’t built real accountability at all.
    The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
  9. Disagree with your manager constructively
    State your disagreement clearly, give your reasoning, and then commit to the decision — without sacrificing either honesty or loyalty.
    Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
  10. Show up for the person, not just the deliverable
    Acknowledge what is happening in someone’s life when it is clearly affecting them — before addressing the work.
    Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor

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