Coaching practices for How to Stop Doing Employees Jobs
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- I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
- Someone hits a snag, brings it to me, I say "leave it with me," and somehow the task I delegated is back on my desk
- I technically stop working but my mind never clocks out
- My days vanish into recurring admin that anyone could do, and the work that only I can do never gets reached
- I hand someone a task but spell out exactly how I’d do it, then pick at every little way they did it differently
Practices that may help
- Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Resist upward (reverse) delegation
Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Use a shutdown ritual
End the workday with a deliberate routine that closes open loops and declares work done.
Deep Work, Made Practical - Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant
Hand off any recurring task a written process can describe to a skilled assistant.
Lifestyle Design, Made Practical - Delegate the outcome, not the procedure
Define what "done" looks like and why it matters, then leave the how to them.
Effective Delegation, Made Practical - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Break the advice-dependency loop
When people come to you for every decision, it signals advice-giving is making them less capable, not more.
The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm - Push recommendations up, not problems
Require reports to bring a recommendation alongside any problem — it’s a delegation practice, not just a time-saver.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation - Write and commit to a standing not-to-do list
Turn elimination candidates into an explicit, reviewed list of permanent refusals.
The Not-To-Do List
Related concerns
- How To Stop Micromanaging
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Send proactive, brief status updates
- Ask A Product Manager To Be Redirected To Someone Else With More Technical Skills
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
- Delegate Work
Assign Q3 tasks to team members who are ready to stretch — and treat the learning curve as the point.
Use delegation as a development tool
- Delegating Tasks At Work
Hand off urgent-but-not-important tasks with a clear brief, defined success criteria, and a check-in cadence.
Structured delegation for Q3 tasks
- How Do I Politely Tell My Coworker He Can Do The Work Himself
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
- How To Take Over An Interns Task Without Him Feeling Defeated
Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
Resist upward (reverse) delegation
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