Coaching practices for How to Support a Colleague Who Finds Meetings Extremely Tiring
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- I’ve got a meeting or two sprinkled into every single day, and even on the lighter days that one call sits there like a landmine
- My calendar is packed with standing meetings and reports I’ve attended for so long I’ve stopped asking why
- I keep quietly blocking off my focus time and saying nothing, and then seething every time a colleague books right over it
- My calendar is wall-to-wall meetings I said yes to out of reflex, half of them with no clear point, and I sit there knowing nothing’s being decided
- A single meeting scattered through an otherwise open day ruins the whole thing
Practices that may help
- Batch all meetings onto meeting days
Route all collaboration, calls, and meetings into dedicated days so they don’t fragment the rest.
Theme Days, Made Practical - Eliminate Q4 tasks systematically
Identify the recurring time-wasters — meetings, reports, subscriptions — and cancel, decline, or automate them.
The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation - Communicate your theme-day structure to collaborators
Let colleagues know which days are off-limits for meetings so the structure is sustainable, not secret.
Theme Days, Made Practical - Decline meetings that lack a clear outcome and agenda
Make a standing policy to decline any meeting invitation that doesn’t specify outcomes and an agenda.
The Not-To-Do List - Batch meetings into one or two days per week
Cluster all coordination into designated meeting days so the remaining days stay structurally intact.
Maker vs Manager Schedule - Default to shorter meeting lengths
Schedule 25- and 50-minute meetings instead of 30 and 60 — the meeting expands only as far as the slot allows.
Parkinson's Law, Made Practical - Protect mornings for deep work — no internal meetings before noon
Morning is when cognitive capacity is highest for most people; spending it on reactive coordination is a predictable waste.
Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson) - Make it recurring and genuinely protected
A standing slot you almost never cancel beats a longer meeting held only when there’s a "reason."
Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical - Protect time for work that matches your genius
Deliberately schedule blocks of genius-type work before filling the rest of the week.
The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni) - Communicate your schedule mode to collaborators
Tell your team when you are in maker mode and what that means for response times.
Maker vs Manager Schedule
Related concerns
- Reduce Meetings At Work
Route all collaboration, calls, and meetings into dedicated days so they don’t fragment the rest.
Batch all meetings onto meeting days
- How To Reduce Meeting Time
Schedule 25- and 50-minute meetings instead of 30 and 60 — the meeting expands only as far as the slot allows.
Default to shorter meeting lengths
- No Meeting Day Policy
Cluster all coordination into designated meeting days so the remaining days stay structurally intact.
Batch meetings into one or two days per week
- Consolidate Meetings
Route all collaboration, calls, and meetings into dedicated days so they don’t fragment the rest.
- How To Reduce Meetings Productivity
Make a standing policy to decline any meeting invitation that doesn’t specify outcomes and an agenda.
Decline meetings that lack a clear outcome and agenda
- My Boss Wants Me To Attend A Meeting Every Day Before Work Hours
Route all collaboration, calls, and meetings into dedicated days so they don’t fragment the rest.
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