Coaching practices for Humor Before Presentation

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• I come across as so buttoned-up and serious that people stay a little stiff around me, and I want to lighten it by laughing at myself
• Right before I walk into the presentation I’m jittery and small, and I want a quiet minute on my own to physically settle into feeling steady and grounded, so all the prep I did actually shows up instead of getting swallowed by nerves.
• I’m so wound up about nailing this presentation that the pressure to be good is exactly what makes me freeze
• I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
• My openings are so predictable and safe that I can watch the audience mentally check out in the first ten seconds

Practices that may help

1. Use self-deprecating humor — selectively
   Laughing at yourself in a low-stakes moment signals security and reduces social distance.
   The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical
2. Set your posture before high-stakes moments
   Take a private moment to settle into a confident posture before a presentation or hard talk.
   Posture and Confidence, Honestly Explained
3. Use paradoxical intention for performance anxiety
   Before a performance, commit to performing as badly as possible — notice what happens to the anxiety.
   Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention
4. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
   Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
   Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
5. Open with something unexpected to direct attention deliberately
   Surprise briefly resets attention, letting you redirect it to whatever follows.
   Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
6. Use humor as a therapeutic distance-maker
   Practice narrating your anxiety to an imaginary sympathetic audience — make it funny.
   Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention
7. Pre-performance heart-focused breathing
   Use 2–5 minutes of slow, heart-centered breathing before high-stakes moments to enter them calmer and sharper.
   Heart Rate Variability Training, Made Practical
8. Lead with the answer, not the build-up
   State your conclusion or recommendation first, then provide the supporting evidence.
   The Minto Pyramid Principle
9. Pre-expose an idea before formally proposing it
   Introduce a concept informally and repeatedly before you need a decision on it — familiarity softens resistance.
   The Mere Exposure Effect, Made Practical
10. Easy Manner: bring a light touch when appropriate
    Use humor, lightness, and warmth to remind both of you that the relationship is bigger than this conflict.
    GIVE: DBT’s Skill for Preserving Relationships During Difficult Conversations

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