Coaching practices for I Could Handle it Anxiety
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Maybe the bad thing really could happen
- I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
- I only ever try a new way to handle this once I’m already deep in a full-blown wave, and by then I’m too far gone to think
- I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
- Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
Practices that may help
- Ask: could you cope even if the worst happened?
Catastrophizing also underestimates your coping capacity — examine that half of the equation.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Rehearse the response before you need it
Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Allow the sensations without resisting
Let the physical feelings of anxiety be present instead of bracing against them.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
A practical anxiety toolkit pulls together a handful of evidence-informed skills — grounding, breathing, interoceptive awareness, behavioral experiments, and balanced self-talk — so you have the right tool for the moment instead of one move for every situation. Several of these rest on solid clinical and experimental support. They are self-help skills for everyday stress and anxiety; for severe or persistent anxiety, use them alongside professional care. - Strengthen the observing self
Notice that there is a "you" watching your thoughts — that witness is stable even when thoughts are not.
Defusion from Anxious Thoughts - Balanced, compassionate self-talk
Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical - Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
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Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
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Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
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Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
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Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
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Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
- How Do I Deal With My Anxiety
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
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