Coaching practices for Inner Stillness Practice

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My mind feels like it’s running nonstop with no rest, and I’m desperate for even a moment of inner quiet
• In a still moment I sometimes catch a glimpse of just being the space everything is happening in, not the things happening
• On the cushion I can touch some spaciousness, but the second I get up and start doing things I’m completely lost in them again
• The endless narration about me
• I calm down for a minute with my eyes closed, but the second I open them and step back into the room I snap right back into the same tight, tunnel-visioned reactivity

Practices that may help

1. Resting in the gap between thoughts
   Notice the small silences between thoughts and let attention settle there.
   The Power of Now, In Practice
2. Rest as the witness rather than in objects
   Allow the inquiry to culminate in resting as the awareness that perceives, rather than in any object perceived.
   Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
3. Practise inquiry during activity, not only in formal sitting
   Bring the "who?" question into the middle of daily activities — it doesn’t require stillness.
   Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation
4. Contemplation, prayer, or meditation toward the larger
   Use a contemplative practice to dissolve, briefly, the boundary of the self.
   Self-Transcendence: Beyond the Self
5. Expand: widen awareness back to body and situation
   After the breath anchor, expand attention outward to include the whole body and the surrounding moment.
   The Three-Minute Breathing Space
6. Silent illumination: the quality of awake stillness
   Cultivate a stillness that is lit from inside — quiet and alert, not blank and dull.
   Shikantaza: Just Sitting
7. Let the mind settle of its own accord
   Rather than forcing stillness, create conditions where the mind naturally quiets.
   Shamatha: The Buddhist Practice of Calm Abiding
8. Metta at the close — sharing merit and goodwill
   End each sitting by radiating goodwill outward, softening any self-critical edge the practice surfaces.
   Vipassana Meditation, Made Practical
9. Work as practice (samu)
   Bring full, wholehearted attention to ordinary tasks, treating activity itself as meditation.
   Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond)
10. After RAIN: resting in natural, open awareness
    After the four steps, rest in the open awareness that remains — not returning immediately to doing.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice

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