Coaching practices for Interoception Explained After a Loss

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • Everyone keeps telling me to move on and get over the loss, but the grief is huge and it won’t go
  • I’m so cut off from my own body that I never notice I’m wound tight until I suddenly boil over or crash
  • This one loss feels like the end of the world when I stare right at it, and I keep checking it obsessively, which only makes it worse
  • I keep my head down and stay busy so I never actually feel the loss, and now it ambushes me at random and won’t metabolize
  • I’m terrified of forgetting them

Practices that may help

  1. Interoception, Explained
    Interoception is the sense of your body’s internal state — heartbeat, breath, hunger, tension, gut feelings — and the brain’s interpretation of those signals. It matters because the brain uses bodily signals as raw material for emotion: how you read your inner state shapes what you feel and how well you regulate. The core science is real and active; the skill of sensing internal signals accurately (and not catastrophizing them) can be trained and supports emotional regulation.
  2. Treating grief as a form of gratitude
    When something ends and you feel grief, recognise that the grief is proportional to the love — and let it be both.
    Mono no Aware: The Pathos of Things
  3. Practice noticing what your body is doing
    Build the skill of sensing internal signals — tension, heart rate, breath — without being hijacked by them.
    The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
  4. Zoom out from the single loss to the aggregate
    A loss looks catastrophic in isolation and trivial across the whole portfolio of your life.
    Loss Aversion, Made Practical
  5. Deliberately engage loss-oriented work
    Set aside dedicated time to directly face the grief — the emotions, the absence, the meaning of the loss.
    The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical
  6. Develop an internalised representation of the person
    Build a rich inner sense of who the person was that you carry and consult in daily life.
    Continuing Bonds in Grief, Made Practical
  7. Stay with sensation without flooding (titrate)
    Build the capacity to feel a sensation in tolerable doses instead of numbing or being swept away.
    Interoception, Explained
  8. Retell the story of the death and its aftermath
    Construct a coherent, detailed narrative of the loss — including your experience before, during, and after.
    Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
  9. Validate your own grief without waiting for external permission
    Give yourself the recognition that society has withheld — your loss is real because it matters to you.
    Disenfranchised Grief, Made Practical
  10. Reading the body as a self-knowledge instrument
    Treat physical sensations in the moment as data about what is actually happening inside you.
    Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice

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