Coaching practices for Is This an Ordinary Workplace Experience for an Intern

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• When I talk to people in the field they give me the polished official version, and I walk away no clearer on what the day-to-day actually feels like
• My whole week funnels me past the exact same faces
• I eat lunch at my desk alone most days and let weeks slip by without really seeing anyone, telling myself I’m too busy
• I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
• I feel like I have to reply the second anything comes in or people will think badly of me

Practices that may help

1. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
   Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
2. Design for serendipitous encounters
   Put yourself in environments where unexpected, cross-cluster contact is structurally likely.
   The Strength of Weak Ties
3. Fill your social calendar intentionally
   Treat every meal, coffee, and event as a relationship-building opportunity and schedule them as such.
   Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
4. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
   Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
5. Reset your perceived availability norm with your team
   Explicitly renegotiate the expectation of instant response — most urgency is not real urgency.
   Technostress: What It Is and How to Manage It
6. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
   Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
7. Assign a theme to each day of the week
   Decide in advance which type of work each weekday is for and protect those assignments.
   Theme Days, Made Practical
8. Use a body double for low-initiation tasks
   Work in the physical or virtual presence of another person to borrow their initiation momentum.
   Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem
9. Use genius mapping in onboarding
   Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
   The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
10. Modify the environment to reduce sensory aversion
    The context in which you do a task is part of its aversiveness — change the container.
    Task Aversion and Procrastination

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