Listen for what isn’t in the job description
Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
Why it works
Job descriptions describe the formal structure of a role; conversations with incumbents reveal the actual experience — the hidden costs, the informal power dynamics, the skills that matter most, the culture that doesn’t fit in a values statement. This tacit knowledge is the most decision-relevant information available and is only accessible through direct conversation.
How to do it
- Ask follow-up questions that go deeper into anything they mention with energy (positive or negative).
- Listen for hesitation, hedge words, or pauses — they often signal the real answer.
- Ask "what does a hard week look like?" to get past the official narrative.
- Take notes on specific phrases they use — this is the vocabulary of insiders and signals cultural fit.
Evidence
Tacit knowledge — the unwritten, experience-based knowledge of how things actually work — is a well-established construct in knowledge management research. Direct conversation is the primary mechanism for accessing it. (mechanistic)
One person’s experience of a role or culture is not representative; seek multiple informational interviews before drawing strong conclusions.
Sources
- Polanyi (1966), The Tacit Dimension
Common mistake
Treating the informational interview as a chance to sell yourself rather than to learn — the information you gather is the product, not the impression you make.
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More practices for Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
- Request the conversation the right way
A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
- Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
- Close every informational interview with one forward step
End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
- Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
- Practise your story before you need it
Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
- Send a meaningful thank-you note
Write a follow-up that references something specific and reports back on how you used their advice.