Coaching practices for Kennon Sheldon Goals

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • Every time I set goals they end up being what I think I’m supposed to want
  • I’ve got this whole list of goals and I honestly can’t tell anymore which ones are mine versus which I took on to look right or quiet the guilt
  • I’m years into chasing something I committed to as a different version of myself, and it doesn’t fit who I am now
  • I’m chasing a dozen goals at once and none of them are moving, because I’m spread so thin nothing builds momentum
  • I finally hit the thing I’d been grinding toward and the satisfaction lasted about an hour before I was already onto the next target

Practices that may help

  1. Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
    Self-concordant goals, from Kennon Sheldon, are goals you pursue because they express who you genuinely are or what truly interests you — not because of guilt, social pressure, or external reward. Research finds that self-concordant goals are pursued with more sustained effort and produce greater well-being when achieved, even when the objective difficulty is held constant.
  2. Excavate core values before writing goals
    Identify what you most fundamentally care about before deciding what you want — or goals will be other people’s.
    The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
  3. Audit why you are pursuing each goal
    Check whether each goal is driven by interest and values or by guilt and external pressure.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
  4. Review goal-self fit at regular intervals
    As you grow, some formerly self-concordant goals become misaligned — review them deliberately.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
  5. Limit how many you run at once
    Keep to a handful of Objectives so the framework concentrates effort instead of scattering it.
    OKRs for People, Not Just Companies
  6. Celebrate growth, not just goal attainment
    Recognize progress in who you are becoming, not only whether you hit the number.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
  7. Bank small wins to build momentum
    Treat each completion of the keystone as a deliberate win that lowers the cost of the next change.
    Keystone Habits: The Few Changes That Cascade
  8. Sidestep the SMART pitfalls
    Use SMART to clarify execution — not to shrink your ambition or freeze your goal.
    SMART Goals That Actually Move
  9. Align around collective results, not individual status
    Teams fail when members prioritize their own visibility or department’s success over the shared goal.
    The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
  10. Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal
    Keep the goal yours even when a coach, boss, or partner is involved in it.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical

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