Coaching practices for Laozi Philosophy Practice
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- I’m kind and openhearted with the people I already love and quietly closed off to the ones who get under my skin, and I’m realizing that warmth that only flows toward easy people isn’t really the practice
- I’ve read all the Stoics and I can quote them, but when I actually look at my week none of it has changed anything
- On paper I know exactly the kind of person I want to be and what I believe, but when I watch how I actually behaved this week there’s an embarrassing gap between the two, and the knowing clearly hasn’t closed it.
- I keep forcing my hardest thinking into the hours when I’m running on empty and frittering my sharpest hours on busywork
- I move through the small moments
Practices that may help
- The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical
The Tao Te Ching is a 2,500-year-old Chinese classic attributed to Lao Tzu that teaches the art of effortless action (wu wei), simplicity, and yielding — meeting life with less force and more receptivity. Its wisdom is philosophical and contemplative rather than empirically studied; its practices overlap with mindfulness and acceptance-based psychology, which have a more developed research base. - Always abide by the three principles
Maintain your vow, don’t show off, and practise impartially with everyone — not just the people you like.
Lojong: Tibetan Mind Training - Pu: Taoist Simplicity and the Uncarved Block
Pu (朴, "uncarved block") is a central image in Laozi’s Tao Te Ching representing a state of original simplicity — potential uncluttered by excess conditioning, opinion, and accumulated complexity. As a practice, pu means deliberately returning to essentials: stripping away unnecessary complexity in decisions, possessions, commitments, and inner speech to restore natural responsiveness. - Zhuangzi and the Practice of Perspective Shift
Zhuangzi uses humour, paradox, and vivid thought experiments to loosen the grip of fixed viewpoints — arguing that most suffering comes from rigidly inhabiting a single perspective. The practical work is developing the capacity to step back into a larger frame, hold multiple views simultaneously, and respond to circumstances with flexibility rather than attachment to how things "should" be. - Practice philosophy as a daily exercise
Reserve time each day not for reading philosophy but for performing a philosophical exercise.
Philosophy as a Way of Life - Live what you study
Make your practice your philosophy — not a separate reading life and a separate daily life.
Philosophy as a Way of Life - Wu Wei — the Practice of Effortless Action
Wu wei — often translated "non-action" or "effortless action" — is a core concept in Taoism, particularly as expressed in the Tao Te Ching attributed to Laozi and in the Zhuangzi. It does not mean doing nothing; it means acting in accord with the natural grain of situations rather than against them through forced effort. As a practice, it overlaps with flow, acceptance, and ecological thinking — though the Taoist philosophical context gives it a distinctive shape these frameworks do not capture fully. - Philosophy as a Way of Life
Pierre Hadot argued that ancient Greek and Roman philosophy — Stoic, Epicurean, Platonic — was not primarily a system of theories but a set of "spiritual exercises": repeated, structured practices for transforming how you perceive, judge, and live. The academic thesis is Hadot’s own and is well established in classical scholarship. The practices he describes overlap with studied mechanisms in mindfulness, CBT, and behavioral change — though that was not Hadot’s own claim. - Aligning action with natural rhythms
Arrange demanding work with your energy peaks and rest with your troughs, rather than fighting your biology.
Pu: Taoist Simplicity and the Uncarved Block - Practising li: ritual propriety in routine
Choose one recurring interaction and treat it with full deliberate attention as a form of practice.
Confucian Self-Cultivation: The Mencius Approach
Related concerns
- Zhuangzi Philosophy Practice
Zhuangzi uses humour, paradox, and vivid thought experiments to loosen the grip of fixed viewpoints — arguing that most suffering comes from rigidly inhabiting a single perspective. The practical work is developing the capacity to step back into a larger frame, hold multiple views simultaneously, and respond to circumstances with flexibility rather than attachment to how things "should" be.
- Flow State And Taoism
Wu wei — often translated "non-action" or "effortless action" — is a core concept in Taoism, particularly as expressed in the Tao Te Ching attributed to Laozi and in the Zhuangzi. It does not mean doing nothing; it means acting in accord with the natural grain of situations rather than against them through forced effort. As a practice, it overlaps with flow, acceptance, and ecological thinking — though the Taoist philosophical context gives it a distinctive shape these frameworks do not capture fully.
- Flow State Taoism
Wu wei — often translated "non-action" or "effortless action" — is a core concept in Taoism, particularly as expressed in the Tao Te Ching attributed to Laozi and in the Zhuangzi. It does not mean doing nothing; it means acting in accord with the natural grain of situations rather than against them through forced effort. As a practice, it overlaps with flow, acceptance, and ecological thinking — though the Taoist philosophical context gives it a distinctive shape these frameworks do not capture fully.
- Follow The Grain Taoism
Before acting, read the natural structure of the situation and find the line of least friction.
Find and follow the grain of the situation
- Lao Tzu Leadership
Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
- Lao Tzu Wisdom
The Tao Te Ching is a 2,500-year-old Chinese classic attributed to Lao Tzu that teaches the art of effortless action (wu wei), simplicity, and yielding — meeting life with less force and more receptivity. Its wisdom is philosophical and contemplative rather than empirically studied; its practices overlap with mindfulness and acceptance-based psychology, which have a more developed research base.
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