Coaching practices for Manager Keeps Saying He's Over Worked but Not Giving Me Much to Do
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- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
- I end the day exhausted and feeling like I worked hard, but when I look back it was all email, admin, and little errands
- I hand work off and somehow it keeps boomeranging back onto my plate
- I spend my whole day handling little fires that feel urgent
- No matter how hard I grind, the list never clears
Practices that may help
- Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Drain the shallows
Aggressively limit and batch low-value shallow work so it doesn’t crowd out deep work.
Deep Work, Made Practical - Resist reverse delegation (the "monkey back" problem)
When a report brings you their monkey, don’t take it — send it back with the next step owned.
Delegation Levels, Made Practical - Delegate or minimize Quadrant III systematically
Urgent but not important tasks are the most dangerous time drain — build a system for handling them without your attention.
Big Rocks First - Audit and renegotiate your commitments
Regularly review what you have agreed to and honestly eliminate what you cannot do.
Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant
Hand off any recurring task a written process can describe to a skilled assistant.
Lifestyle Design, Made Practical - Understand the constraints your manager operates under
Ask about the pressures and constraints your manager faces — then factor them into your expectations and requests.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Map your manager’s top three priorities
Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Quadrant 3: delegate it
Urgent but not important tasks — interruptions and others’ priorities — get handed off.
The Eisenhower Matrix, Made Practical
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