Coaching practices for Material vs Experiential Spending

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• I keep buying myself things expecting a lift and the thrill is gone within a week
• I keep spending my money on stuff
• When I do have money to spend beyond the basics I keep funneling it into more stuff that I’m bored of within a month, and some part of me senses I’d get far more lasting joy out of a trip or buying back my own time
• My instinct when I care about someone is to buy them a thing, but the stuff I’ve given just ends up in a drawer and forgotten
• Almost all my discretionary money goes to treats for myself and the lift fades fast, and I notice the moments I actually felt good were the small things I did for other people

Practices that may help

1. Invest in experiences rather than possessions
   Experiential spending produces more lasting happiness than material spending of equivalent cost.
   Time Affluence Practices (Cassie Holmes)
2. Spend on experiences rather than possessions
   Experiences resist adaptation better than objects because they exist as memories that improve over time.
   The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical
3. Spend the enough on time and experiences, not the treadmill
   When you do spend above enough, direct it where adaptation is slowest.
   The Enough Mindset, Made Practical
4. Give experiences, not objects
   Treat someone to a shared experience rather than buying them a thing.
   Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
5. Allocate part of your values budget to others
   Prosocial spending — money spent on others — generates more lasting satisfaction per dollar than equivalent self-spending.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
6. Audit what you actually miss during the fast
   Track which skipped purchases produce genuine regret versus mild inconvenience — this is your real spending values map.
   The Spending Fast, Made Practical
7. Define your Rich Life before designing your spending
   Decide what genuinely brings you joy or meaning before allocating a single dollar.
   Conscious Spending Plan, Made Practical
8. Align spending deliberately with stated values
   Review each discretionary category against what you say matters most — and cut what doesn’t match.
   The Latte Factor: Small Spending and the Cost of Habit
9. Apply the "value per dollar" test to major purchases
   Before a large purchase, ask how much wellbeing per dollar this generates relative to alternatives at the same cost.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
10. Recognize which upgrades stop feeling good quickly
    Learn which categories of spending reliably fade to ordinary so you stop upgrading them.
    Lifestyle Creep: Why Raises Don’t Make You Richer

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