Coaching practices for Maximizer Tendency

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I don’t even notice I’ve spiraled until I’m forty reviews deep and exhausted, telling myself I’m just being careful
  • Even after I decide, I can’t let it rest
  • I made my choice and it’s honestly fine, but my mind won’t stop circling back to the one that got away and how it might’ve been better
  • I pour the same agonizing effort into picking a toothpaste as into a real life decision, and by the time something that matters comes along my capacity to decide well is already spent on trivia.
  • I’ve got talented people but I keep slotting them in by whoever’s free or whatever their title says, and I can feel their real gifts going to waste

Practices that may help

  1. Spot your maximizer tells
    Learn the signals that you’re maximizing a decision that doesn’t deserve it.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
  2. Satisfice instead of maximize
    Choose the option that meets your criteria rather than searching for the theoretically best one.
    The Mindset of Enough: Contentment Without Complacency
  3. Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
    Satisficing — a term coined by Herbert Simon — means choosing the first option that meets your criteria, while maximizing means searching for the best possible option. Research by Barry Schwartz and colleagues found that people who habitually maximize tend to make objectively slightly better choices yet report lower satisfaction, more regret, and worse well-being — so for most everyday decisions, "good enough" wins.
  4. Practice gratitude for what you chose
    Counter maximizer regret by actively appreciating the option you took.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
  5. Choose maximize or satisfice per decision
    Reserve maximizing for the few high-stakes, lasting choices; satisfice the rest.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
  6. Become a talent magnet: attract and deploy people at their best
    Multipliers find what people do naturally well and put them in conditions where that genius is essential.
    Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
  7. Resist the pull to optimize parameters when structure is the problem
    Notice when you are adjusting numbers and ask whether the structure is the actual problem.
    Leverage Points
  8. Treat anything beyond the minimum as a bonus
    Complete the minimum first, then let further effort be strictly optional — never obligatory.
    Mini Habits, Made Practical
  9. Invest in people’s ownership: give stakes and stay back
    Multipliers give full ownership and hold people responsible; Diminishers over-resource and under-trust.
    Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
  10. Separate motivational optimism from your forecast
    Let your ambition be honest about what it is — a desired outcome — without contaminating your probability estimate.
    The Outside View

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