Coaching practices for Meaning Making Coping in a New Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve been reading this one event in the bleakest possible way, and I’m starting to wonder if there’s a truer way to understand what it actually means
• Almost everything that gives my life meaning rests on one thing
• I’ve got my go-to ways of coping that feel justified and even comforting in the moment, but when I’m honest nothing is actually getting better
• I keep swinging between drowning in the raw grief and trying to make sense of it, and I think I lean too hard on the sense-making because feeling it is unbearable
• They handled the money, or the cooking, or were just the person I leaned on

Practices that may help

1. Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
   Crystal Park’s meaning-making model holds that psychological distress after stressful events often reflects a gap between global meaning (the person’s general beliefs and goals) and situational meaning (what this specific event seems to say about the world). Coping involves either reappraising the event’s meaning or updating global beliefs to accommodate it. Research supports meaning-making as a predictor of better psychological adjustment following major stressors.
2. Reappraise the situational meaning of the event
   Change how you understand what the event means — without denying what happened.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
3. Maintain meaning sources proactively, not only after crisis
   Build a robust enough meaning system before the next stressor that any one event is less likely to shatter it entirely.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
4. Ask the workability question
   Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
5. Oscillate between grief and sense-making
   Allow periods of pure grief alongside periods of meaning construction — both are necessary.
   Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
6. Task 3: Adjust to a world without the person
   Actively develop new skills, roles, and identity elements to navigate the changed life.
   Worden’s Tasks of Mourning, Made Practical
7. Look for genuine benefits without forcing them
   Authentic benefit-finding — identifying real ways the experience changed you — aids adjustment; manufactured benefit-finding does not.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
8. Use positive reappraisal and benefit-finding intentionally
   Looking for genuine growth or benefit in a difficult experience is a real coping strategy with a biological cost-benefit that works.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
9. Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
   Robert Neimeyer’s meaning reconstruction model holds that significant loss shatters the assumptive world — the implicit beliefs about self, others, and the future on which daily life depends — and that healthy grief requires rebuilding a coherent, meaningful life narrative that can integrate the loss. This framework is supported by observational research on grief outcomes and underpins narrative grief therapies with growing trial evidence.
10. Build a coherent narrative of what happened
    Tell the story of the difficult event in a way that makes sense — coherence reduces distress even when the event itself cannot be undone.
    Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical

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