Coaching practices for Meaning Making Coping When Overwhelmed

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• I’ve been reading this one event in the bleakest possible way, and I’m starting to wonder if there’s a truer way to understand what it actually means
• I keep swinging between drowning in the raw grief and trying to make sense of it, and I think I lean too hard on the sense-making because feeling it is unbearable
• I burn enormous energy trying to fix things that aren’t mine to fix, and then go quiet and just stew over the things I actually could do something about
• When I try to tell the story of what happened it comes out as a jumble that doesn’t hang together
• I keep making plans and trying to fix something that genuinely can’t be fixed

Practices that may help

1. Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
   Crystal Park’s meaning-making model holds that psychological distress after stressful events often reflects a gap between global meaning (the person’s general beliefs and goals) and situational meaning (what this specific event seems to say about the world). Coping involves either reappraising the event’s meaning or updating global beliefs to accommodate it. Research supports meaning-making as a predictor of better psychological adjustment following major stressors.
2. Reappraise the situational meaning of the event
   Change how you understand what the event means — without denying what happened.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
3. Oscillate between grief and sense-making
   Allow periods of pure grief alongside periods of meaning construction — both are necessary.
   Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical
4. Match coping mode to what is actually controllable
   Use problem-focused coping when you can change the situation; emotion-focused coping when you cannot.
   Stress Inoculation Training
5. Build a coherent narrative of what happened
   Tell the story of the difficult event in a way that makes sense — coherence reduces distress even when the event itself cannot be undone.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
6. Apply emotion-focused coping to uncontrollable stressors
   When the stressor cannot be changed, invest your energy in how you relate to the experience rather than fighting the situation.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
7. Select the specific coping skills you will use — in advance
   Choose which DBT or other coping skills you will deploy at each difficult moment, before you are in it.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
8. Inventory your coping resources (secondary appraisal)
   After identifying the threat, systematically assess what you actually have to work with — your options are likely more than the stressed mind sees.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
9. Maintain meaning sources proactively, not only after crisis
   Build a robust enough meaning system before the next stressor that any one event is less likely to shatter it entirely.
   Meaning-Making Coping, Made Practical
10. Prepare coping self-talk in advance
    Script what you will say to yourself at the trigger, during the peak, and afterward — before you need it.
    Stress Inoculation Training

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