Coaching practices for Meditations as Marcus Practiced it After a Setback

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  • I know exactly how I want to handle things when I’m calm, and then the moment hits and I forget all of it
  • I’m never actually in what I’m doing
  • I know who I’m going to deal with today
  • I read all the Stoic ideas and nod along, but the moment real life pushes on me I crumble exactly the same as before
  • The noise and demands of everyone around me get inside my head until I have no peace anywhere

Practices that may help

  1. Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
    Meditations was Marcus Aurelius’ private journal — a set of self-directed exercises for keeping his judgment steady while running an empire: writing to himself, rehearsing the day’s difficult people, separating events from his opinions about them, and remembering how small and brief it all is. The strongest evidence for these is their direct line into cognitive behavioral therapy and into expressive-writing and self-distancing research.
  2. Write to yourself (the Meditations method)
    Keep a private notebook where you argue yourself back to your own principles, in your own words.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  3. Do the task in front of you, fully
    Treat each present action as if it were your last, with full attention and no half-measures.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  4. Premeditate the difficult people
    Each morning, expect to meet the ungrateful, the arrogant, and the dishonest — and pre-decide your response.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  5. Daily training of the ruling faculty
    Treat every day’s difficulties as training material for strengthening the ruling faculty.
    The Inner Citadel
  6. Retreat to the inner citadel
    When the world presses in, withdraw into your own mind — the one place no one can occupy.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  7. Strip the event to the bare facts
    Describe what actually happened without the story you’ve wrapped around it.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  8. Account for what you owe others
    Regularly recall, by name, the people and gifts that made you who you are.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  9. Place it in the scale of the whole
    Set your problem against the size of the universe and the brevity of all human time.
    Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It
  10. Negative visualization (premeditatio malorum)
    Briefly imagine losing what you have, so you stop taking it for granted and brace for setbacks.
    Stoicism, as a Set of Practices

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