Coaching practices for Motivation Diagnosis

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’m completely unmotivated and I honestly can’t tell whether it’s that deep down I don’t believe I can pull this off, or that I just don’t care about it
• The "dream big, chase the upside" pep talks everyone gives me just make me more anxious, not fired up
• I keep failing at the same thing and I’ve decided I’m just lazy or weak
• When something goes wrong I just get hit with a wave of "I always fail at everything because I’m not capable," and it’s so total and crushing that I can’t even see which part of that is the actual problem versus the part I could question.
• I keep doing the same driven, intense thing and I can’t tell if it’s because I need it done right, or need to be seen winning, or just need to feel competent

Practices that may help

1. Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value
   Before trying to motivate yourself, identify which of the two factors is actually low.
   Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
2. Identify your dominant regulatory focus in a given domain
   Knowing whether you are operating from promotion or prevention in a domain determines which motivation tools will actually work for you.
   Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
3. Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
   Self-Determination Theory (Deci & Ryan) holds that durable motivation depends on three basic psychological needs being met: autonomy (acting from your own values), competence (feeling effective), and relatedness (feeling connected). Meet the needs and motivation becomes self-sustaining; thwart them and even rewarded behavior decays. The core claims are among the best-supported in motivation science.
4. Diagnose which element — motivation, ability, or prompt — is the bottleneck
   When a behavior isn’t happening, ask: Is the person motivated enough? Can they do it? Are they being prompted?
   The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
5. Motivated Reasoning
   Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
6. Learn the three attribution dimensions
   Diagnose every failure explanation as internal/external, stable/unstable, and global/specific — then ask which dimension you can shift.
   Attributional Retraining, Made Practical
7. Identify your core motivation, not just your type
   Find your type by looking at what drives your behavior from the inside — motivation — not just the behavior itself.
   The Enneagram
8. Audit why you are pursuing each goal
   Check whether each goal is driven by interest and values or by guilt and external pressure.
   Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
9. Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
   Motivational interviewing (MI) is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person’s own motivation for change by drawing out their reasons rather than supplying them. Meta-analyses find small-to-moderate effects across health behaviors — modest on average, but reliably better than confrontational or advice-giving styles, which can backfire.
10. Meet the relatedness need
    Connect the work to people — support, shared purpose, or being seen.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable

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