Coaching practices for Name Emotion and Body Location

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• I can name what I’m feeling but it still has me by the throat
• I can analyze my feelings all day long, but it stays in my head and never actually moves through me
• I feel it in my body before my head catches up
• When a feeling takes over I’m just lost inside it, like it’s the whole room
• Something just hit me and I’m flooded

Practices that may help

1. Dual labeling: name both the emotion word and its body location
   Follow an emotion word with its body location: "Anxiety — tight chest and held breath."
   Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
2. Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
   After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
   The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
3. Pair the word with a body location
   Name the feeling and where you sense it: "tight in the chest", "heavy in the gut".
   Affect Labeling: Name It to Tame It
4. Name what the emotion is doing in your body
   Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
5. Labeling Emotions in Negotiation, Made Practical
   Labeling — naming what the other person seems to be feeling before any argument or ask — reduces the emotional intensity of the feeling and makes the other party feel understood, which lowers their defenses. Affect-labeling research (Lieberman et al., 2007) shows that putting feelings into words reduces amygdala activity; Chris Voss built this into FBI hostage-negotiation practice. The technique is most powerful when the label is accurate and delivered without judgment.
6. Simple affect label: say the emotion word aloud or in writing
   When emotionally activated, say or write one clear emotion word — "fear," "anger," "grief" — before doing anything else.
   Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
7. Granular labeling: move from broad to specific emotion words
   Replace "stressed" or "bad" with the most specific emotion word you can find.
   Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
8. Name the emotion accurately
   Use precise emotion words — not just "fine" or "stressed" — to be honest with yourself about what you actually feel.
   Radical Honesty About Emotions, Made Practical
9. Tracking shadow material through the body
   Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
   Shadow Work
10. Find the felt sense
    Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
    Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical

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