Coaching practices for Nature and Movement for My Teenager

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  • My little one gets so wound up or so shut down that talking goes nowhere
  • I go through my days on autopilot, doing what I’m told and what’s expected, never quite feeling like I’m the one steering my own actions
  • My kid is full of wild physical energy and I tend to shut down the wrestling and chasing because I’m afraid it’ll spin out of control
  • When I’m wound up or stuck I just sit there marinating in the feeling, when every cell of me is itching to move
  • When I move my body it tends to flip too far one way or the other

Practices that may help

  1. Use physical movement to shift the nervous system state
    When the child is stuck in a heightened state, movement can shift the physiological baseline faster than words.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  2. Practicing deliberate choice in movement
    Make explicit micro-decisions during movement to rebuild the felt experience of agency.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety
  3. Engage in safe rough-and-tumble play
    Wrestling, chasing, and physical silliness build the regulation capacity that calm activities cannot.
    Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
  4. Move and use rhythm to shift state
    Walking, swaying, drumming, dancing — rhythmic, whole-body movement to discharge and reset arousal.
    The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
  5. Moving within your window of tolerance
    Choose movement intensity that produces sensation without triggering overwhelm or shutdown.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety
  6. Using rhythm and repetition to regulate
    Rhythmic, predictable movement sequences calm the nervous system through temporal predictability.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety
  7. Sportscast what you see rather than directing
    Narrate the play without evaluation, question, or instruction.
    Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
  8. Practice with invitational language
    Receive (and give) movement cues as invitations you can accept, modify, or decline — not instructions to obey.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety
  9. Design awe walks that amplify the psychological return of outdoor movement
    Walking with intentional attention to vast, novel, or beautiful elements generates awe — which compounds the mood benefits of movement.
    Nature and Movement, Made Practical
  10. Cultivate a "yes brain": curiosity, courage, and resilience over reactivity
    Respond to the child’s world with curiosity and openness rather than threat and control.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)

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