Coaching practices for Oblique Strategies When Starting Out

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve decided the lesson from this success is “focus narrow” or “go big”
• I always open with a "fair" number to seem reasonable and not greedy, and I keep ending up closer to their side than mine
• I try one way to crack a new problem, it doesn’t work, and I immediately stop and go look it up
• I keep grinding to engineer the perfect outcome and getting nowhere, and it just occurred to me I’ve never once flipped it around and asked what would absolutely guarantee this blows up
• Every approach I come up with sounds like me, because I keep ruling out anything that doesn’t feel like something I’d do

Practices that may help

1. Oblique Strategies, Made Practical
   Oblique Strategies is a deck of constraint-based prompts created by Brian Eno and Peter Schmidt to interrupt habitual thinking during creative blocks. The prompts work by forcing an indirect, unexpected approach to a problem rather than attacking it head-on. Evidence for constraint-based creativity is solid in cognitive research; the specific deck is widely used in music, design, and writing with strong anecdotal support.
2. Steelman the strategy opposite to the successful one
   Before adopting a lesson from a success story, build the best possible case for the opposite approach.
   Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
3. Anchor your opening near your end of the ZOPA
   Open ambitiously — but inside the plausible zone — to shift the expected settlement point in your direction.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
4. Solution-space exploration
   Generate multiple different approaches to a problem before converging on one.
   Productive Failure: How Struggling First Makes Instruction More Effective
5. Use inversion as the first model in every problem
   Before solving a problem, ask what would guarantee failure — then avoid those things.
   Mental Models: Charlie Munger’s Latticework Approach
6. Ask what a specific other person would do
   Step into a named other’s perspective to access approaches you would not generate as yourself.
   Oblique Strategies, Made Practical
7. Ask for the failure rate before celebrating the success rate
   Before drawing lessons from any success story, ask: out of how many attempts did this succeed?
   Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
8. Run the full WOOP sequence — not just parts of it
   WOOP works as a sequence; running only the wish and outcome steps (pure positive visualization) is not WOOP and may be counterproductive.
   Mental Contrasting and WOOP
9. Test whether a ZOPA exists before investing further
   When you suspect there may be no overlap, surface the zone gap early rather than investing time in an impossible deal.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
10. Invoke the outside view before committing to any significant plan
    Before finalizing a plan or forecast, ask "How did similar things go?" as the first checkpoint.
    The Outside View

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