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  • When someone does something genuinely great I tend to file it away to mention at their review, and by the time it comes around it’s gone cold and vague
  • I dread correcting someone because it always seems to come out as an attack on who they are, and they get defensive and shut down
  • My whole attention as a manager is tuned to what’s broken
  • I keep getting frustrated that people aren’t hitting the bar
  • I praise my kid constantly

Practices that may help

  1. The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
    Blanchard and Johnson’s One Minute Manager distills management to three practices: one-minute goals (clear, written, short), one-minute praisings (specific, immediate, genuine), and one-minute reprimands (immediate, behavior-specific, followed by reaffirmation). The framework is a 1982 practitioner classic, not a clinical protocol, but the mechanisms — specificity in feedback, timeliness, and the separation of behavior from character — are supported by decades of subsequent research in reinforcement and feedback theory.
  2. One-minute praisings: specific, immediate, genuine
    Praise that names the exact behavior immediately after it occurs reinforces that behavior far more effectively than delayed or generic recognition.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
  3. One-minute reprimands: immediate, specific, behavior-not-person
    Effective correction is fast, focuses on the specific behavior, and ends with reaffirmation of the person’s value.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
  4. Catch people doing things right
    Most management attention goes to problems — systematically noticing good work is both rarer and more powerful.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
  5. Agree in advance on what good performance looks like
    Performance conversations go badly because the standard was never made explicit — the reprimand is the first time it is stated.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
  6. Sportscast what you see rather than directing
    Narrate the play without evaluation, question, or instruction.
    Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
  7. One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
    A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
    The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
  8. Make praise as specific as criticism
    Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
    Radical Candor, Made Practical
  9. The self-compassion break (Neff’s three-step pause)
    In a hard moment: acknowledge, connect, and offer kindness — three breaths, three phrases.
    Working With Your Inner Critic
  10. Encourage specific contributions and efforts
    "You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
    Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen)

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