Coaching practices for Open Presence Difficult Emotion

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The moment a hard feeling rises in me, I instinctively clench away from it or bolt for a distraction
• The moment a hard feeling shows up I’m already busy escaping it
• When a big emotion hits, it becomes the whole world
• There’s an obvious unspoken tension sitting in the room
• I try to keep the emotion out and stay reasonable, but it never actually stays out

Practices that may help

1. Meeting emotion in open presence
   When a difficult emotion arises during open monitoring, stay in the witnessing position rather than contracting or escaping.
   Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical
2. Show up — turn toward difficult emotions
   Face difficult feelings with curiosity rather than suppressing, avoiding, or being swept into them.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
3. Recognize aware presence within strong emotion
   When a strong emotion arises, shift to noticing the awareness in which the emotion appears rather than being swept by it.
   Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
4. Label the negative feeling they haven’t said out loud
   Labeling what someone is clearly feeling but hasn’t named gives them permission to acknowledge it.
   Labeling Emotions in Negotiation, Made Practical
5. Bring feelings into the conversation deliberately
   Name the emotions instead of leaking them — unspoken feelings don’t leave, they distort.
   Difficult Conversations, Made Practical
6. A — Allow the experience to be as it is
   Let what is present be here, without pushing it away, numbing it, or elaborating it.
   RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
7. Receive what comes with friendliness
   Welcome whatever emerges from the felt sense without judgment or urgency to fix it.
   Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
8. Mindful awareness of suffering
   Hold painful feelings in balanced awareness — neither suppressing them nor being swept away by them.
   Self-Compassion, Made Practical
9. RAIN — Allow the experience to be here
   Let the feeling exist as it is for a moment, without pushing it away or feeding it.
   Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
10. Use genuine facial expressions and body language — not managed ones
    Let your face and body reflect what you are actually experiencing so others can read and respond to you.
    Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness

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