Coaching practices for Overconfidence Before Decisions
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I feel completely sure about this decision, which is honestly starting to make me nervous
- I feel completely sure about this, and a quiet part of me knows that’s exactly when I’ve been most wrong before
- I keep being so sure I’m right and then being wrong, and I have no way to see whether my confidence actually means anything
- I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back
- I’ve been sitting on something easy for two weeks telling myself I need one more data point, and the truth is I already know enough
Practices that may help
- Ask 'What am I missing?' before major decisions
Treat a confident feeling before a high-stakes decision as a cue to check what your competence map is omitting.
Circle of Competence - Slow down on one-way doors
For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
The Two-Way Door - Track your calibration across many predictions
Score your confidence levels against outcomes over dozens of predictions to find your systematic biases.
Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time - Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time - Move fast on two-way doors
On reversible decisions, decide with 70% of the information you wish you had — then adjust.
The Two-Way Door - Log probability estimates before the outcome
Write down your confidence level and reasoning before you know how things turn out.
Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect - Judge decisions by the process, not the result
A good decision that produces a bad outcome is still a good decision.
Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty - The premortem (imagine the project already failed)
Before starting, assume the plan has already failed and ask why — then fix it now.
Premeditatio Malorum, in Depth - Regression-to-mean awareness in JOLs
Discount your highest-confidence JOLs most — they are the most likely to be inflated.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Run a premortem before committing
Imagine the decision has already failed — then ask why.
Thinking in Bets
Related concerns
- When Circle Of Competence Ask What Am I Missing
Treat a confident feeling before a high-stakes decision as a cue to check what your competence map is omitting.
Ask 'What am I missing?' before major decisions
- Cost Of Error Decisions
For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
Slow down on one-way doors
- Domain Overconfidence
Discount your highest-confidence JOLs most — they are the most likely to be inflated.
Regression-to-mean awareness in JOLs
- High Stakes Uncertainty Decision
Choose the option whose worst plausible outcome is most survivable — when you can’t compute expected value, optimize the floor.
Use maximin reasoning for high-stakes, irreversible decisions under ambiguity
- How To Stop Second Guessing Decisions
Mentally close off the "undo" option to stop rumination and increase satisfaction.
Treat your decision as more final than it is
- Iia Decision Theory
If a new option makes you change your preference between existing options, ask whether the new option should have that power.
Check whether a third option is changing your view of the original two
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