Coaching practices for Performance Anxiety Reframe

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• The bigger the moment, the more I just want it to be over
• Right before anything that matters my heart pounds and my hands shake, and I read all of it as proof I’m not ready and about to fall apart
• The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"
• Right before I go on, my heart is pounding and my hands are shaking and I read all of it as a sign I’m about to fall apart
• Right before something that matters my heart pounds and my hands buzz, and I read all of it as a warning to back out

Practices that may help

1. Reframe high-stakes moments as opportunities to demonstrate capability
   Treat pressure as validation that the performance matters — which is exactly why you prepared for it.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
2. Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
   Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
   Mastery Experiences
3. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
   Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
   Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
4. Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
5. Reappraise discomfort as a signal of engagement
   Interpreting physiological arousal as excitement rather than threat changes its effect on performance.
   Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
6. Debrief after performance without letting relief collapse the strategy
   After a successful performance, acknowledge the outcome honestly without abandoning the preparation habit that produced it.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
7. Reframe physiological arousal as challenge activation, not threat
   Tell yourself the racing heart is your body preparing to perform — because physiologically, it often is.
   Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical
8. Use paradoxical intention for performance anxiety
   Before a performance, commit to performing as badly as possible — notice what happens to the anxiety.
   Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention
9. Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
   Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
   Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical
10. Protect the strategy from well-meaning optimism
    Recognize that others’ "positive thinking" attempts before your performance will disrupt your preparation — and manage that proactively.
    Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical

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