Coaching practices for Physical Activity Dysregulation

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  • My kid is full of wild physical energy and I tend to shut down the wrestling and chasing because I’m afraid it’ll spin out of control
  • My little one gets so wound up or so shut down that talking goes nowhere
  • I’m so wound up I can’t sit still
  • When I’m wound-up or shut-down, sitting still and breathing just leaves me stewing
  • My anxiety lives in my body

Practices that may help

  1. Engage in safe rough-and-tumble play
    Wrestling, chasing, and physical silliness build the regulation capacity that calm activities cannot.
    Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
  2. Use physical movement to shift the nervous system state
    When the child is stuck in a heightened state, movement can shift the physiological baseline faster than words.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  3. Intense exercise: discharge the physiological arousal with brief intense movement
    Do 20 jumping jacks, sprint for a minute, or any intense exercise to burn through the stress-response chemicals.
    TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
  4. Gentle rhythmic movement
    Walking, swaying, or light rhythmic exercise to shift autonomic state and support recovery.
    Vagal Tone, Honestly Explained
  5. Exercise to lower anxiety
    Use movement to discharge physical arousal and recalibrate the alarm system.
    Exercise for Mental Health
  6. Use moderate-intensity exercise as a hormetic stress
    Regular moderate exercise trains the stress-response system to activate and recover efficiently, reducing the accumulation of load.
    Allostatic Load, Made Practical
  7. Use gentle movement to oppose the collapse
    Small, intentional physical movements counter the body’s pull toward stillness and immobility.
    Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: The Collapse State and How to Emerge
  8. Move naturally throughout the day rather than only in dedicated exercise sessions
    Blue zone populations are not athletes — they live in environments that make constant low-level movement unavoidable.
    Blue Zone Principles: The Power 9 Longevity Practices
  9. Reduce emotional vulnerability (PLEASE)
    Lower your baseline reactivity by protecting sleep, eating, exercise, and physical health.
    DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
  10. Moving within your window of tolerance
    Choose movement intensity that produces sensation without triggering overwhelm or shutdown.
    Trauma-Informed Yoga: Movement as a Path to Safety

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