Coaching practices for Pre Suasion at Work

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I keep raising my important ask at the worst possible moment
  • I lead straight in with my pitch and watch people’s guard go up before I’ve finished a sentence
  • I tend to drop the whole big request on someone cold, all at once, and they balk
  • I noticed I got someone to agree to something they probably wouldn’t have chosen on its own, just because they’d said yes to me earlier
  • I want to invite someone to try a new approach, and I sense it would land far better if they first connected it to how they already see themselves

Practices that may help

  1. Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
    Pre-suasion, Robert Cialdini’s term, is the practice of directing attention to a concept or feeling immediately before a message so that the audience is primed to receive it favorably. The core finding is that what people are thinking about just before a message reshapes how they interpret it — making the moment before you speak as important as the message itself.
  2. Place your message in a context that evokes the right associations
    Context — physical, digital, or conversational — frames how a message is received before the first word.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  3. Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask
    Briefly focus the audience on a concept that makes your core message naturally follow.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  4. Elicit a small consistency cue before the main ask
    Get a small, genuine agreement or self-description before the main request — people act consistently with what they’ve said.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  5. Recognize and respect the ethical limits of foot-in-the-door
    The technique can manufacture commitment to things people would not freely choose — that is a misuse.
    The Foot-in-the-Door Technique, Made Practical
  6. Prime identity before the ask — "what kind of person are you?"
    Invite the person to describe who they are in terms that align with the behavior you’re requesting.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  7. Ensure the first commitment feels freely chosen
    The self-perception update only fires when the person believes they chose to comply.
    The Foot-in-the-Door Technique, Made Practical
  8. Influence through persuasion, not positional power
    Build consensus and convince rather than command — authority is the last resort, not the first.
    Servant Leadership, Made Practical
  9. Activate unity — shared identity before the message
    Establish genuine shared identity with your audience before presenting your position.
    Pre-Suasion, Made Practical
  10. Harness visible commitment in group settings
    When one person in a group makes a visible commitment, others follow — start with the most willing.
    Social Proof, Made Practical

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