Coaching practices for Preparation Reduces Anxiety

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• It went fine, and now a voice says all that worry was a waste and I could ease off next time
• I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
• Before anything important my mind floods with every way it could go wrong, and I keep trying to shove those thoughts down
• Right before something big, the people around me pile on the "you’ll be amazing, don’t worry"
• There’s a conversation coming up that I’m dreading, and I keep picturing it going fine and then getting blindsided in the moment by their pushback or my own panic

Practices that may help

1. Debrief after performance without letting relief collapse the strategy
   After a successful performance, acknowledge the outcome honestly without abandoning the preparation habit that produced it.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
2. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
   Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
   Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
3. Use reflective simulation to convert anxiety into planning
   Mentally walk through what could go wrong — then convert each potential failure into a specific preparation action.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
4. Protect the strategy from well-meaning optimism
   Recognize that others’ "positive thinking" attempts before your performance will disrupt your preparation — and manage that proactively.
   Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical
5. Cope-ahead planning for high-stakes interactions
   Rehearse a difficult conversation in detail — mentally and verbally — before it happens.
   DBT Interpersonal Effectiveness: Getting What You Need Without Destroying the Relationship
6. Create a brief cope ahead card to take into the situation
   Write a pocket reminder of the scenario, the emotions, and the skill — so you have it when you need it.
   Cope Ahead: DBT’s Method for Preparing for Difficult Situations
7. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
   Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
8. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
   Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
9. Map your safety-behavior inventory
   List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
10. Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
    A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
    Power Posing Revisited

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