Coaching practices for Prosocial Time Spending
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Almost all my discretionary money goes to treats for myself and the lift fades fast, and I notice the moments I actually felt good were the small things I did for other people
- I feel so stretched that I’ve started guarding every single minute and saying no to everyone
- I give people things but it always comes out as a quick transaction
- I finally clear an evening and then watch it dissolve into scrolling and half-watched TV
- Money’s tight, so I feel like I’ve got nothing to give
Practices that may help
- Allocate part of your values budget to others
Prosocial spending — money spent on others — generates more lasting satisfaction per dollar than equivalent self-spending.
Values-Based Spending, Made Practical - Spend time on others to feel time-rich
Giving time away can paradoxically make you feel you have more of it.
Time Affluence, Made Practical - Give in ways that strengthen social connection
Make your giving a moment of relationship, not a transaction.
Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness - Invest freed time in activities with documented well-being returns
Buying back time only raises happiness if the freed time goes to high-return activities.
Time Smart: Buying Back Your Time Affluence - Give your full attention as a form of prosocial spending
Treat undivided attention as a resource you can intentionally spend on another person.
Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness - Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton’s research found that spending money on others — "prosocial spending" — reliably produces more happiness than spending the same amount on oneself, across income levels and cultures. The effect is real and replicates, though it is not unlimited: how you give matters as much as whether you give. - Prioritize social time as a primary time investment
Time with people you care about is one of the strongest predictors of feeling your time is well used.
Time Affluence Practices (Cassie Holmes) - Time Smart: Buying Back Your Time Affluence
Ashley Whillans’s research shows that "time affluence" — the subjective sense of having enough time — predicts well-being better than income beyond a moderate level, and that concrete practices like outsourcing disliked tasks and protecting time for meaningful activities measurably raise it. The core studies are correlational with some experimental support for specific interventions. - Buy back your time
Spend money to outsource tasks you dislike, freeing hours for what matters.
Time Affluence, Made Practical - Outsource tasks you dislike to buy time affluence
Paying to offload dreaded tasks raises happiness more than spending the same money on material goods.
Time Smart: Buying Back Your Time Affluence
Related concerns
- Prosocial Spending Why Giving Boosts Happiness When Overwhelmed
Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton’s research found that spending money on others — "prosocial spending" — reliably produces more happiness than spending the same amount on oneself, across income levels and cultures. The effect is real and replicates, though it is not unlimited: how you give matters as much as whether you give.
- Social Time Happiness
Time with people you care about is one of the strongest predictors of feeling your time is well used.
Prioritize social time as a primary time investment
- Time Smart Buying Back Your Time Affluence As A Caregiver
Ashley Whillans’s research shows that "time affluence" — the subjective sense of having enough time — predicts well-being better than income beyond a moderate level, and that concrete practices like outsourcing disliked tasks and protecting time for meaningful activities measurably raise it. The core studies are correlational with some experimental support for specific interventions.
- Cassie Holmes Time Affluence
Cassie Holmes’s research on time and happiness identifies several evidence-backed habits that increase felt time abundance: protecting a moderate amount of discretionary time, spending time on activities that match your strengths, investing in experiences over things, and being present in time you already have. Effects are real but modest; the biggest single factor is how you allocate and attend to the time you have, not how much of it there is.
- Choosing Time Over Money
When trade-offs arise, weight time more heavily than the extra dollars.
Choose time over money on purpose
- Does Buying Things Make You Happy
Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton’s research found that spending money on others — "prosocial spending" — reliably produces more happiness than spending the same amount on oneself, across income levels and cultures. The effect is real and replicates, though it is not unlimited: how you give matters as much as whether you give.
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