Coaching practices for Reduce Stimulation Anxiety

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  • When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again
  • Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
  • I walk into hard situations white-knuckling to make sure nothing bad happens, so the second I feel any anxiety I read it as proof of danger and grab for a crutch
  • I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work
  • I’m flooded and my thoughts are useless right now

Practices that may help

  1. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
    After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical
  2. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
    Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  3. Reframe from "preventing catastrophe" to "coping with discomfort"
    Shift the goal of entering feared situations from preventing disaster to practicing tolerance.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  4. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  5. Arm havening stroke
    Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  6. Improve CO2 tolerance to reduce anxiety sensitivity
    The 7-count hold in 4-7-8 builds CO2 tolerance — a key factor in anxiety reactivity and panic thresholds.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical
  7. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
    Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
  8. Imaginal exposure: pair relaxation with vivid mental imagery
    Vividly picture each hierarchy step while deeply relaxed until distress drops.
    Counter-Conditioning and Systematic Desensitization
  9. Fade reassurance-seeking
    Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  10. Manage prevention-focus anxiety through action, not reassurance
    Prevention-focused anxiety is reduced most effectively by taking the vigilant action that addresses the threat, not by telling yourself nothing is wrong.
    Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking

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