Coaching practices for Rumination Focused Cbt After a Loss

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• When I’m calm I can sort of see how to think more concretely, but the second I’m actually upset that ability vanishes and I’m right back in the abstract spiral
• The same thought keeps circling back
• Every time I try imagining losing something, it slips its leash
• The loop in my head is pure attack
• Once the brooding starts I can’t think my way out of it, and the things I reach for to distract

Practices that may help

1. Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
   Rumination-Focused CBT (RFCBT), developed by Edward Watkins, targets the extended, abstract, self-critical thinking style that maintains depression — not just negative thoughts. It trains people to shift from abstract "why" rumination to concrete "how" thinking and compassionate, specific engagement with experience. Randomised trials show it reduces depressive rumination and relapse rates.
2. Practise concrete thinking with neutral material
   Build the concrete processing habit with low-stakes content before applying it to distressing topics.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
3. Using noting to interrupt rumination
   When a rumination loop begins, note each recurrence — "thinking about X again" — to de-fuse from the thought rather than fight it.
   Noting Practice, Made Practical
4. Bound the practice: close on gratitude
   Every negative visualization must end with a firm return to the present and a deliberate act of appreciation.
   Negative Visualization, the Stoic Practice
5. Apply self-compassion to replace self-critical rumination
   Respond to self-critical loops with the same warmth you would offer a struggling friend.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
6. Use absorbing activities to exit rumination
   Identify activities that fully capture your attention and deploy them as rumination interrupters.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
7. Use imagery to re-engage with avoided experiences
   Revisit a distressing memory in concrete imagery rather than abstract analysis.
   Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
8. ACCEPTS — structured distraction from crisis
   Use Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, and Sensations to redirect attention during a crisis.
   Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
9. Reframing loss as transformation
   When something ends or is lost, practise asking what it is becoming rather than only mourning what it was.
   Zhuangzi and the Practice of Perspective Shift
10. Restructure the environment that cues rumination
    Change the physical context that reliably initiates your rumination loops.
    Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical

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