Coaching practices for Self Determination Theory Made Usable in a New Job

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  • I’m putting in the hours but I never feel like I’m actually getting anywhere
  • Everything on my plate is something I "have to" do for someone else, and approaching it that way I feel coerced and flat
  • The more I order myself around
  • Someone else handed me this goal and I’ve been quietly resenting it as not mine, doing the bare minimum out of spite
  • Every part of my day is dictated to me

Practices that may help

  1. Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
    Self-Determination Theory (Deci & Ryan) holds that durable motivation depends on three basic psychological needs being met: autonomy (acting from your own values), competence (feeling effective), and relatedness (feeling connected). Meet the needs and motivation becomes self-sustaining; thwart them and even rewarded behavior decays. The core claims are among the best-supported in motivation science.
  2. Build competence with optimal challenge
    Set tasks just beyond current ability so progress is felt, not assumed.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  3. Locate the autonomous "why"
    Reframe a task until you are doing it from your own values, not external pressure.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  4. Use autonomy-supportive self-talk
    Coach yourself with choice and rationale, not "shoulds" and self-pressure.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  5. Internalize goals you did not choose
    Move externally set goals along the spectrum from "have to" toward "value".
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  6. Increase autonomy over task, time, technique, and team
    Reclaim control over how you do the work — Pink’s "four T’s".
    Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose
  7. Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills
    Skills can be learned; shared belief cannot — filtering for Why-alignment at hiring is the highest-leverage culture move.
    Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose
  8. Meet the relatedness need
    Connect the work to people — support, shared purpose, or being seen.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  9. Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy
    Offer self-directed options in practice — which drill, how many reps, which cue — to enhance intrinsic motivation and learning.
    External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
  10. Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
    Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical

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