Coaching practices for Self Determination Theory Made Usable at Work

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  • The more I order myself around
  • Every part of my day is dictated to me
  • Everything on my plate is something I "have to" do for someone else, and approaching it that way I feel coerced and flat
  • I’m putting in the hours but I never feel like I’m actually getting anywhere
  • I chase everything completely alone, telling no one and treating asking for support as weakness

Practices that may help

  1. Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
    Self-Determination Theory (Deci & Ryan) holds that durable motivation depends on three basic psychological needs being met: autonomy (acting from your own values), competence (feeling effective), and relatedness (feeling connected). Meet the needs and motivation becomes self-sustaining; thwart them and even rewarded behavior decays. The core claims are among the best-supported in motivation science.
  2. Use autonomy-supportive self-talk
    Coach yourself with choice and rationale, not "shoulds" and self-pressure.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  3. Increase autonomy over task, time, technique, and team
    Reclaim control over how you do the work — Pink’s "four T’s".
    Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose
  4. Locate the autonomous "why"
    Reframe a task until you are doing it from your own values, not external pressure.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  5. Build competence with optimal challenge
    Set tasks just beyond current ability so progress is felt, not assumed.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  6. Meet the relatedness need
    Connect the work to people — support, shared purpose, or being seen.
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  7. Carve out self-directed time
    Reserve protected time to pursue work you choose, the way innovative teams do.
    Drive: Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose
  8. Connect daily tasks to purpose to sustain spiritual energy
    Schwartz and Loehr’s "spiritual" energy is simply the motivational fuel of purpose — work feels effortful without it and effortless with it.
    Energy Management, Not Time Management
  9. Internalize goals you did not choose
    Move externally set goals along the spectrum from "have to" toward "value".
    Self-Determination Theory, Made Usable
  10. Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
    Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
    Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical

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