Coaching practices for Self Efficacy Solution Focused

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I don’t believe I can actually pull this off, and the things I do that take real grit I just wave away as nothing
  • I’m right on the edge of trying this and I just need someone whose judgment I trust to look at what I’ve actually done and tell me, with reasons, that I’m ready
  • No amount of telling myself I can do this actually makes me believe it
  • I know I could do the work
  • I don’t actually believe I can do this, and no amount of telling myself I can changes that

Practices that may help

  1. Complimenting Strengths Throughout the Session
    Deliberately name real strengths, efforts, and resources the person displays — not as praise but as information.
    Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
  2. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
    Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT), developed by Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg, directs attention to what already works — client strengths, past successes, and desired futures — rather than to analyzing problems. Meta-analyses report small-to-moderate positive effects across a range of presenting issues, with particular strength in behavioral problems and depression in adult populations.
  3. Use credible verbal persuasion to raise efficacy in the short term
    Specific, credible encouragement from a trusted source can temporarily raise self-efficacy — but must be followed by performance to stick.
    Social Cognitive Theory
  4. Build self-efficacy through mastery experiences
    Engineer small, genuine successes to raise belief in your ability — not through encouragement, but through actual performance.
    Social Cognitive Theory
  5. Clarify outcome expectations alongside efficacy expectations
    High confidence in your ability is not enough if you don’t believe the behavior will produce the outcome you want.
    Social Cognitive Theory
  6. Build mastery experiences
    Stack small, genuine successes — the strongest source of believing you can.
    Self-Efficacy: Building the Belief You Can
  7. Attribute outcomes to effort and strategy
    How you explain a result decides whether it builds or breaks your efficacy.
    Self-Efficacy: Building the Belief You Can
  8. Affirm genuine strengths and effort
    Notice and name real strengths the person brings — not empty praise.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
  9. Build expectancy through mastery experiences, not just affirmations
    Expectancy — the belief that you can succeed — grows from actual small wins, not self-talk.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  10. The practice of self-responsibility
    Own that you are the author of your choices, actions, and the fulfillment of your wants.
    The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical

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