Coaching practices for Self Focused Attention Social Anxiety

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The moment I’m in a room with people I’m trapped watching myself
• In any conversation I’m so busy watching myself
• The whole time someone’s talking to me I’m watching myself from the outside
• In the middle of a stressful moment I get hyper-aware of my own racing heart and how I’m coming across, and watching myself like that only cranks it higher
• The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"

Practices that may help

1. Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
   In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
   Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
2. Shift attention outward during social situations
   Direct your focus to what the other person is saying and feeling, not to how you appear.
   The Spotlight Effect: Why You Think Everyone Is Watching
3. Shift attention from self to situation
   Redirect your attention from monitoring yourself to genuinely engaging with the other person.
   Overcoming Shyness: Philip Zimbardo’s Framework
4. Redirect from self-focus to external attention
   When anxiety spikes, deliberately anchor attention to a specific external sound or object.
   Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
5. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
   Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
   Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
6. Attention training technique (ATT)
   Practice deliberately shifting attention across sounds — a drill that builds attention flexibility and reduces self-focus.
   Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
7. Selective attention to individual sounds
   Deliberately focus on one distinct sound source among several and hold attention there.
   Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
8. Train flexible attention
   Practise deliberately moving attention between external cues and internal experience — and back.
   Detached Mindfulness, Made Practical
9. External focus: redirect attention away from bodily sensations
   Shift attention outward during anxiety to disrupt the monitoring loop that amplifies sensations.
   The Clark Panic Model, Made Practical
10. Divided attention — hold multiple sources at once
    Expand awareness to hold three or more sounds simultaneously without collapsing back to one.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical

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