Coaching practices for Self Soothing at Work
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- I’m too wound up to think my way calm
- I keep telling myself the scrolling and the drinking are just me unwinding, but I notice I come out the other side emptier, not calmer
- I’m too wound up to reason my way calm
- I’ve been trying to ride this out completely alone and I just can’t bring myself down by myself
- The upset is sitting in my body, not my thoughts
Practices that may help
- Self-Soothing, Made Practical
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research. - Five-senses self-soothe
Deliberately engage each sense with something genuinely comforting to redirect attention and activate the soothing system.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Distinguish soothing from numbing
Know the difference between self-soothing (active, present) and numbing (passive escape) — both reduce distress but in opposite directions.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Self-soothe through the five senses
Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch while the crisis peaks.
Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical - Soothe through connection
Reach for a regulated person — a phone call, a physical presence — when you cannot self-regulate alone.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Physical self-soothing
Use touch, warmth, rocking, or breath to directly calm the nervous system.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Warm self-talk
Speak to yourself in distress the way you would speak to a struggling friend — warmly, honestly, and without blame.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical - Co-regulation (borrow a calmer nervous system)
Use contact with a calm, safe person to bring your own system down — we regulate through each other first.
Polyvagal Theory, Honestly Explained - Self-soothe with the five senses
Deliberately comfort yourself through sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch to ride out distress.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical - Build a personal soothe menu
Know in advance — not when distressed — which specific soothing strategies actually work for you.
Self-Soothing, Made Practical
Related concerns
- How To Soothe Yourself
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
- Self Soothing For Adults
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
- Comforting Yourself
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
- Self Soothing
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
- Self Soothing During A Big Change
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
- Self Soothing On A Budget
Self-soothing is the skill of comforting and calming yourself during distress — through sensory input, self-compassionate internal dialogue, physical regulation, and deliberate attention management. It draws on well-established mechanisms: bottom-up sensory regulation, vagal activation, and self-compassion. Individual soothing techniques vary in evidence; the general category of self-regulation through internal resources is well grounded in both DBT and attachment research.
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