Coaching practices for Servant Leadership in a New Job

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• Everything still routes through me
• I just took over a brand-new team and everyone’s being polite and looking to me for everything
• The moment one of my people starts talking I’m already half-composing my answer, jumping in to fix it before they’ve even finished
• I catch myself walking into every one-on-one asking what I need out of this person, and almost never what would actually help them grow
• I’ve got a new hire starting and the lazy move is to just hand them whatever’s piled up in the backlog

Practices that may help

1. Directing — high direction for the eager novice
   With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
2. Servant Leadership, Made Practical
   Servant leadership, a philosophy coined by Robert Greenleaf, inverts the usual order: the leader exists to serve the growth and well-being of their people first, and authority follows from that service rather than from position. It began as a practitioner philosophy; a body of mostly observational research now links it to engagement and performance, though causal evidence remains limited.
3. Build people’s autonomy and capability
   The aim is people who need you less over time, not more.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
4. Forming: provide clarity before connection
   In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
   Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
5. Listen deeply before responding
   Greenleaf’s servant-leader is "a listener first" — understanding precedes directing.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
6. Put the growth of others first
   Start from "how do I help this person succeed?" rather than "how do they help me succeed?"
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
7. Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
   When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
8. The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
   Leading as a coach means creating space for people to think and grow rather than solving every problem for them. The approach draws on coaching methodology — asking over telling, listening before advising — and is supported by research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and learning. The shift is behaviorally demanding because telling feels faster and more capable, even when it systematically reduces the people around you.
9. Use genius mapping in onboarding
   Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
   The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
10. Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
    Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
    The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical

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