Coaching practices for Servant Leadership When Starting Out

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Everything still routes through me
• I catch myself walking into every one-on-one asking what I need out of this person, and almost never what would actually help them grow
• The moment one of my people starts talking I’m already half-composing my answer, jumping in to fix it before they’ve even finished
• I lead by directing and correcting and stepping in to fix things, and my team has gone quiet and passive, waiting to be told
• I keep making the call that looks good this quarter and quietly costs the team a year out, and I want to start deciding like someone holding all this in trust for the long run rather than spending it to hit the number in front of me.

Practices that may help

1. Servant Leadership, Made Practical
   Servant leadership, a philosophy coined by Robert Greenleaf, inverts the usual order: the leader exists to serve the growth and well-being of their people first, and authority follows from that service rather than from position. It began as a practitioner philosophy; a body of mostly observational research now links it to engagement and performance, though causal evidence remains limited.
2. Build people’s autonomy and capability
   The aim is people who need you less over time, not more.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
3. Put the growth of others first
   Start from "how do I help this person succeed?" rather than "how do they help me succeed?"
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
4. Listen deeply before responding
   Greenleaf’s servant-leader is "a listener first" — understanding precedes directing.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
5. Directing — high direction for the eager novice
   With someone new and keen but unskilled, give clear, specific instruction and tight structure.
   Situational Leadership, Made Practical
6. Leading from behind — the servant leader stance
   Influence others more through example, listening, and restraint than through assertion and command.
   The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical
7. Practice foresight and stewardship
   Hold the team’s resources and future in trust — decide for the long game, not just this quarter.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
8. Influence through persuasion, not positional power
   Build consensus and convince rather than command — authority is the last resort, not the first.
   Servant Leadership, Made Practical
9. Deliberately expand your inner circle
   Move team members from low-LMX to high-LMX through intentional relationship investment.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
10. Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
    When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical

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