Coaching practices for Setting the Baseline

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• I build my estimate from my own optimistic story first and only glance at how long these things usually take at the very end as a sanity check
• On days I’ve slept badly or skipped meals, the smallest thing tips me over, and I’ve started to see that how much I can handle is set long before the stress even hits
• I keep walking into negotiations and letting the other side set the baseline first, and then I spend the whole conversation fighting uphill from their numbers
• I keep saying I’ll just start over, but the whole stretch where things fell apart is still bleeding into right now
• I keep trying to change by sheer willpower while spending all my time around people who pull me right back to my old normal

Practices that may help

1. Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details
   Start your forecast from the class median, then adjust — do not start from your narrative and adjust to the base rate.
   Reference Class Forecasting
2. Build a wider window between crises
   Sleep, movement, and connection raise your baseline so the window is wider before stress hits.
   The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone
3. Set the reference point before you introduce the loss
   Loss is always measured from a reference point — who sets that point controls the framing.
   The Loss Frame: How Framing Shapes Decisions
4. Name the "before" and create a deliberate "after"
   Give the period before the setback a name and declare a clean break — the act of naming creates the separation.
   Fresh Start Framing: Engineering Your Own Clean Slate
5. Engineer your proximity (peer group)
   “Who you spend time with is who you become” — treat your environment as a force, not a backdrop.
   Tony Robbins’ Core Practices
6. Use reference class forecasting for project estimates
   Estimate how long similar projects have taken historically before estimating your specific project.
   Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds
7. Conduct post-project debriefs to contribute to the class data
   Record actual vs. forecast outcomes honestly — this builds the reference class that future forecasts depend on.
   Reference Class Forecasting
8. Time your start to a temporal landmark
   Launch a new goal on a Monday, the first of the month, or a birthday to ride the fresh-start boost.
   The Fresh Start Effect
9. Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds
   Base-rate neglect is the tendency to underweight or ignore prior probabilities (how often things happen in general) when vivid, specific information is available. Identified by Kahneman and Tversky, it is one of the most robustly replicated biases in judgment research, and it leads to systematic overconfidence in predictions about specific cases. Correcting it requires actively looking up or estimating base rates before evaluating individual information.
10. Set realistic goals and chip away at them — resist "crush it" culture
    Aspirational goals that require heroic effort normalize crisis; realistic goals with steady progress normalize calm.
    Designing a Calm Company (Fried & Hansson)

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