Coaching practices for Should I Calm Down Before Performance
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- I pump myself up with loud music and psych-up talk before everything, and then I wonder why my hands shake on the parts that need a steady, precise touch
- Everyone tells me to "just stay calm" before the big moment, but calm leaves me flat and underpowered
- Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
- When the nerves hit, my warm-up stretches on and on as I fidget and re-do things, and that very dragging-out is the tell that I’m rattled
- I’m about to walk in and my heart is pounding, hands cold, mind racing
Practices that may help
- Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand
Fine-tune whether your routine should up-regulate or down-regulate your energy before the performance.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical - Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone - Standardize the duration of your routine
Fix the length of your pre-performance sequence so timing does not become a pressure variable.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical - Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch - Reappraise anxiety as excitement before high-stakes performance
Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is the same, the performance effect is not.
Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical - Protect the strategy from well-meaning optimism
Recognize that others’ "positive thinking" attempts before your performance will disrupt your preparation — and manage that proactively.
Defensive Pessimism, Made Practical - Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure - Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical - Practice routine disruption so it doesn’t derail performance
Train yourself to reset and re-enter the routine after interruptions so disruption never catches you unprepared.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
Related concerns
- How To Calm Nerves Before Event
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
- Pre Performance Anxiety
Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
- Pre Performance Anxiety Calming
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
- Pre Performance Calming
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
- Reducing Arousal Before Performance
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
- Anxiety As Performance Fuel
Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
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