Coaching practices for Situational Leadership When Overwhelmed
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- When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before
- Everyone brings their problems to me to solve, I jump in and fix each one, and now I’m the bottleneck for everything while my people never grow
- Everything is on fire at once and it all feels equally urgent, so I freeze
- Carrying everyone else’s anxiety and conflict has hollowed me out
- Everything still flows through me
Practices that may help
- Regulate the level of distress in the system
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Situational Leadership, Made Practical
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law. - Supporting — step back on direction, stay high on support
For the capable-but-cautious performer, lighten the instructions and bolster their confidence.
Situational Leadership, Made Practical - Give the work back without abandoning people
Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Prioritize and execute
Under overload, name the single highest priority, solve it, then move to the next.
Extreme Ownership, Made Practical - Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system
Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical - Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it
Develop leadership capacity throughout the team, not just in the designated leader.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Recognise stress-driven backup behaviour
Under stress, everyone shifts to an exaggerated, less effective version of their dominant style.
Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate - Apply the Stockdale Paradox to teams and leadership
As a leader or team member under pressure, model the simultaneous holding of faith and brutal facts — it is contagious in both directions.
The Stockdale Paradox, Made Practical - Get on the balcony
Regularly step back from the action to see the system — not just your corner of it.
Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Situational Leadership When Burned Out
Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
Build sanctuaries for renewal outside the system
- Adaptive Leadership Under Stress
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
Regulate the level of distress in the system
- Adaptive Leadership When Overwhelmed
Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
- Adaptive Leadership When Burned Out
Maintain relationships and practices outside the organizational system that restore perspective and capacity.
- Servant Leadership When Overwhelmed
The aim is people who need you less over time, not more.
Build people’s autonomy and capability
- Situational Leadership During A Big Change
Situational Leadership, developed by Paul Hersey and Ken Blanchard, says the right leadership style depends on the follower’s readiness for a given task: match how much you direct versus support to where the person actually is. It is enormously popular in corporate training, but its empirical support is genuinely weak — treat it as a useful thinking tool, not a validated law.
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