Coaching practices for Software Industry is This Normal to Feel Lost in First Month
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’ve got a new hire starting and the lazy move is to just hand them whatever’s piled up in the backlog
- I’m brand new to this and they’ve thrown me straight at problems I have no clue how to start, so I just sit there guessing and backtracking and getting nowhere
- I walk into the same situation already knowing exactly how it goes, so I stop actually looking
- I just took over a brand-new team and everyone’s being polite and looking to me for everything
- The moment a problem shows up I lock onto the first fix that comes to mind and start running with it
Practices that may help
- Use genius mapping in onboarding
Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni) - Study a fully worked example before attempting a new problem type
Read through a completely solved example and understand each step before you try to solve anything yourself.
The Worked Examples Effect: Learn Faster by Studying Solutions First - Fresh-eyes inquiry: "What if I knew nothing about this?"
Before engaging a familiar situation, ask what you would notice if you were seeing it for the first time.
Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical - Forming: provide clarity before connection
In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development - Adopt a "not-knowing" stance before problem-solving
Delay solution-generation by first articulating what you genuinely do not know about a problem.
Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical - Follow explicit rules and procedures without improvisation at the novice stage
When new to a domain, follow the given rules precisely — understanding comes after compliance, not before.
The Dreyfus Model: Five Stages from Novice to Expert - Metalearning: map the skill before you start
Research how the skill is structured and learned before diving in.
Ultralearning: Aggressive, Self-Directed Learning - Take the outside view (base rates)
Estimate using the track record of similar cases, not the vivid details of your own.
Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable - Calibrate expectations for how long novelty will sustain motivation
New projects and environments produce an initial motivational burst that reliably fades — plan for this.
Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel - Attempt before instruction
Try to solve a new type of problem with your current knowledge before any formal teaching.
Productive Failure: How Struggling First Makes Instruction More Effective
Related concerns
- When Worked Examples Effect Study Before Attempt
Read through a completely solved example and understand each step before you try to solve anything yourself.
Study a fully worked example before attempting a new problem type
- Novice Learning Rules
When new to a domain, follow the given rules precisely — understanding comes after compliance, not before.
Follow explicit rules and procedures without improvisation at the novice stage
- When Concrete Examples Learning Analogical Reasoning
Map an unfamiliar concept onto a familiar one that shares the same relational structure.
Use analogies to transfer structure from known to unknown
- When Dreyfus Skill Model Use Rules At Novice Stage
When new to a domain, follow the given rules precisely — understanding comes after compliance, not before.
- When Interleaving Self Test Classification
Explicitly ask "what kind of problem is this?" before reaching for a method.
Practice classifying before solving
- When Ultralearning Metalearning
Research how the skill is structured and learned before diving in.
Metalearning: map the skill before you start
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