Coaching practices for This New Thing Feels Completely Foreign and I Have No Handhold on it What Would Help is If Someone Showed Me How It's Like Something I Already Understand So I'm Not Starting From Nothing
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- This new thing feels completely foreign and I have no handhold on it
- This new subject feels completely foreign and I have no footing in it, even though I’m genuinely fluent and intuitive in something physical I’ve done for years
- This new concept is so abstract and tangled that I can’t get a grip on it at all, and I keep wishing I could hang it on something I already understand deeply instead of trying to build the whole structure from nothing.
- I’m brand new to this and they’ve thrown me straight at problems I have no clue how to start, so I just sit there guessing and backtracking and getting nowhere
- When someone’s clearly not following, I just keep restating the same idea in more technical detail
Practices that may help
- Use analogies to transfer structure from known to unknown
Map an unfamiliar concept onto a familiar one that shares the same relational structure.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Map a new domain onto a familiar bodily one
When tackling an unfamiliar subject, find a physical domain you already know well and map the structure across.
Embodied Cognition: How Your Body Shapes Your Thinking - Build chunks by finding analogies to what you already know
Map new complex material onto a structure you already understand deeply.
Chunking: How to Learn More by Grouping Better - Study a fully worked example before attempting a new problem type
Read through a completely solved example and understand each step before you try to solve anything yourself.
The Worked Examples Effect: Learn Faster by Studying Solutions First - Build a bridging analogy from what they know to what they don’t
Map the new concept onto a structure the audience already understands.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - Follow explicit rules and procedures without improvisation at the novice stage
When new to a domain, follow the given rules precisely — understanding comes after compliance, not before.
The Dreyfus Model: Five Stages from Novice to Expert - Find a genuine novice to test your explanation on
Before the real audience, explain to someone who actually doesn’t know.
The Curse of Knowledge: Why Experts Struggle to Teach - Attempt before instruction
Try to solve a new type of problem with your current knowledge before any formal teaching.
Productive Failure: How Struggling First Makes Instruction More Effective - Generate your own example after learning a concept
Immediately after encountering a concept, create a fresh example from your own life or field.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Fresh-eyes inquiry: "What if I knew nothing about this?"
Before engaging a familiar situation, ask what you would notice if you were seeing it for the first time.
Beginner's Mind (Shoshin), Made Practical
Related concerns
- Novice Learning Rules
When new to a domain, follow the given rules precisely — understanding comes after compliance, not before.
Follow explicit rules and procedures without improvisation at the novice stage
- Conceptual Metaphor Learning
Map an unfamiliar idea onto a bodily experience to make it genuinely graspable.
Anchor abstract concepts to a physical metaphor
- Connect To Prior Knowledge
Before reading anything new, write down everything you already believe about the topic.
Write what you already know before reading a topic
- Software Industry Is This Normal To Feel Lost In First Month
Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
Use genius mapping in onboarding
- Test Explanation On Novice
Before the real audience, explain to someone who actually doesn’t know.
Find a genuine novice to test your explanation on
- When Chunking Cross Domain Analogies
Map new complex material onto a structure you already understand deeply.
Build chunks by finding analogies to what you already know
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