Coaching practices for Somatic Emotion Practice

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• I can talk about my feelings all day from the neck up, but the real stuff seems to be locked in my body
• I can analyze my feelings all day long, but it stays in my head and never actually moves through me
• It’s not pain exactly
• I only ever try this stuff when my kid is already in full meltdown, and that’s exactly when it comes out stiff and scripted and falls apart
• When a feeling takes over I’m just lost inside it, like it’s the whole room

Practices that may help

1. Tracking shadow material through the body
   Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
   Shadow Work
2. Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
   Somatic Experiencing, developed by Peter Levine, proposes that overwhelming experience leaves incomplete survival energy "stuck" in the body, and that gently completing and discharging that activation — in small, titrated doses, moving between activation and calm (pendulation) — helps the nervous system settle. The body-awareness skills it teaches are low-risk and increasingly studied, but the evidence base is still emerging and the "stored energy" model is a clinical theory, not established physiology. These are self-regulation skills; trauma work belongs with a trained professional.
3. Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
   After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
   The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
4. Apply somatic tracking to difficult emotions as well as pain
   The same curious, non-fearful attention that retrains pain responses can be applied to emotional sensations in the body.
   Somatic Tracking, Made Practical
5. Practice emotion coaching during low-stakes moments
   Build the skill in small moments so it’s available in the big ones.
   Emotion Coaching (John Gottman)
6. Name what the emotion is doing in your body
   Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
7. Practice titration with low-stakes material to build the skill
   Apply the titration approach to ordinary everyday discomfort — mild frustration, physical tension, minor disappointment — to build the skill before harder material.
   Titration in Somatic Practice, Made Practical
8. I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
   Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
   RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
9. Track body sensation (the felt sense)
   Follow raw physical sensation with curiosity — tingling, warmth, pressure — rather than the storyline.
   Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
10. Progressive relaxation: release physical tension systematically
    Tense and release each muscle group in sequence to clear the physical tension that emotional arousal creates.
    TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity

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