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  • I’m stuck endlessly in my head
  • I can talk about my feelings all day from the neck up, but the real stuff seems to be locked in my body
  • I get yanked out of the present and back into the thing that scared me
  • Every time I try to face the hard stuff I go straight at the worst of it to just get it over with, and it floods me
  • It’s not really my thoughts keeping me up, it’s my body

Practices that may help

  1. Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
    Somatic Experiencing, developed by Peter Levine, proposes that overwhelming experience leaves incomplete survival energy "stuck" in the body, and that gently completing and discharging that activation — in small, titrated doses, moving between activation and calm (pendulation) — helps the nervous system settle. The body-awareness skills it teaches are low-risk and increasingly studied, but the evidence base is still emerging and the "stored energy" model is a clinical theory, not established physiology. These are self-regulation skills; trauma work belongs with a trained professional.
  2. Track body sensation (the felt sense)
    Follow raw physical sensation with curiosity — tingling, warmth, pressure — rather than the storyline.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  3. Tracking shadow material through the body
    Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
    Shadow Work
  4. Ground and orient to the present
    Use feet, contact, and a slow look around the room to re-anchor in the safe here-and-now.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  5. Titration (work in tiny, tolerable doses)
    Approach a hard sensation or memory in small sips, not all at once, so you stay regulated.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  6. Progressive muscle relaxation to lower physical arousal
    Systematically tense and release muscle groups from feet to head to lower the physiological arousal that blocks sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  7. Use relaxation training before bed
    Practice a structured relaxation technique to lower physiological arousal before sleep.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  8. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  9. Reading the body as a self-knowledge instrument
    Treat physical sensations in the moment as data about what is actually happening inside you.
    Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice
  10. Pendulation (move between activation and calm)
    Oscillate attention between a charged sensation and a place of safety or ease in the body.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained

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