Coaching practices for Stay Curious Management
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Everything has gone flat and routine
- The moment someone brings me a problem the answer is already on my lips and I just hand it over
- My boss keeps checking in and hovering over my work, and it makes me feel untrusted
- My whole attention as a manager is tuned to what’s broken
- I realize I know exactly what each person on my team is working on this week but almost nothing about where they’re actually trying to get to in their life
Practices that may help
- Cultivate curiosity as a daily emotional practice
Curiosity is a broadening emotion that expands attentional scope and drives exploratory behavior — it can be deliberately triggered.
Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical - Stay curious one beat longer before advising
Resist the urge to give the answer for one more question — ask what they think first.
The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm - Send proactive, brief status updates
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Catch people doing things right
Most management attention goes to problems — systematically noticing good work is both rarer and more powerful.
The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work - Learn what each person actually wants from their career and life
Care personally means knowing the goal behind the job — not just what they’re working on, but why.
Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor - Give something genuine before you ask for something hard
The trust account needs deposits before you make a withdrawal — invest in the relationship before demanding performance.
Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor - Challenge assumptions and invite new thinking
Actively encourage your team to question old ways and generate new approaches.
Transformational Leadership, Made Practical - Actively seek evidence that would prove you wrong
Ask what would change your mind — and then look for it.
The Scout Mindset - Investigate before escalating
Ask one honest clarifying question before taking action on an assumed motive.
Hanlon's Razor: Never Attribute to Malice What Stupidity Can Explain - Shift from negative to positive orientation toward uncertainty
Reframe some uncertainty as openness — outcomes not yet known can be good as easily as bad.
Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD
Related concerns
- Manager Care Personally
Care personally means knowing the goal behind the job — not just what they’re working on, but why.
Learn what each person actually wants from their career and life
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Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Map your manager’s top three priorities
- Demonstrate Care At Work
Acknowledge what is happening in someone’s life when it is clearly affecting them — before addressing the work.
Show up for the person, not just the deliverable
- Former Manager And Team Keep Reaching Out With Questions Despite Transferring To A New Team
Update your manager on important work before they ask — in the format and frequency they actually want.
Send proactive, brief status updates
- How Can I Encourage My Manager To Move His Ideas Forward Without Overstepping
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
- How Much To Care As A Manager
Caring personally means being available, not being a therapist — know the limit of your role.
Know where care ends and overreach begins
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