Coaching practices for Steelman vs Endorse

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I go through the motions of considering the other side and then somehow always conclude I was right all along
  • I water down the other side’s argument with little "they claim, without proof" jabs because I’m scared that stating it fairly will look like I agree with it
  • There are a few ways to read the view I’m up against, and I keep reaching for the flimsiest one because it’s the easiest to knock down
  • I’ve settled on my position and I can feel how much I want it to be right, which is exactly why I don’t trust it yet
  • I wave through arguments on my side that I’d tear apart in a heartbeat if the other side made them

Practices that may help

  1. Distinguish steelmanning from sycophancy
    Charitably interpreting a position is not the same as agreeing with it, refusing to disagree, or softening your critique to avoid conflict.
    Steelmanning
  2. Steelmanning
    Steelmanning — popularized by Daniel Dennett as a core intellectual virtue — means reconstructing an opposing position in its strongest, most charitable form before responding to it. It is the deliberate inverse of strawmanning. The practice is well-established in philosophy and structured debate; direct experimental evidence for its effects on reasoning quality is limited, but its mechanism is logically sound.
  3. Separate steelmanning from endorsing
    Accurately represent a view without implying you agree with it.
    Steelmanning
  4. Find the strongest version of the opposing view
    If there are multiple ways to interpret a position, choose the most defensible one.
    Steelmanning
  5. Ask what alternative perspectives would say
    Deliberately steelman the strongest objection to your current position before treating it as settled.
    Socratic Questioning
  6. Apply the double-standard check: would I accept this reasoning if it pointed the other way?
    Test whether you are holding your team’s arguments to a lower bar than the other side’s.
    The Scout Mindset
  7. Use expert endorsement for high-stakes decisions
    When people are highly uncertain, a credible expert’s endorsement outweighs peer count.
    Social Proof, Made Practical
  8. Insist on objective criteria
    Anchor the deal to independent standards — market rates, precedent, expert opinion — not willpower.
    Getting to Yes: Principled Negotiation
  9. Steelman objections to your own plans
    Before committing to a plan, state the strongest case against it in its most compelling form.
    Steelmanning
  10. Restate the opposing view before responding to it
    Summarize the other position in a form they would endorse before you say anything critical.
    Steelmanning

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